{"id":7136,"date":"2018-04-10T09:35:47","date_gmt":"2018-04-10T07:35:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/?p=7136"},"modified":"2018-04-10T09:35:47","modified_gmt":"2018-04-10T07:35:47","slug":"polyamory-manchester-style","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/7136\/","title":{"rendered":"Polyamory, Manchester Style"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A reader alerts me to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-5592129\/My-controversial-polyamorous-lifestyle-works-fine-says-Mary-Manchester.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">this story<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Meet the 44-year-old therapist who has a husband, a fianc\u00e9 and two boyfriends.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Mary Crumpton, from Chorlton, is speaking publicly about her relationships in the hope of allowing others to understand people who follow the practice polyamory.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Polyamory, as we are often told, is perfectly normal.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Mary, who became interested in polyamory when she was 29, has a husband, Tim, 43, a fianc\u00e9, John, 53, and two boyfriends &#8211; Michael, 63, and James, 73. She lives with Tim and John and the other two men live nearby.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Seventy-three!! How the hell does a man that age get into polyamory?<\/p>\n<p>Still, it&#8217;s up to them, and if they&#8217;re happy, why not? There don&#8217;t appear to be any children involved, and unlike most profiles of polyamorists they don&#8217;t seem batshit insane, nor is there one partner who is obviously suicidal. Despite the best efforts of the media, I&#8217;m still not convinced it will ever be seen as normal, though: it&#8217;s a practice which seems only to attract a certain type of person.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>My husband Tim and I share an enthusiasm for environmentalism and all that entails, like electric cars, and veganism.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Polyamorists.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7137\" src=\"https:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Polyamorists.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"628\" height=\"816\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Polyamorists.jpg 628w, http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Polyamorists-231x300.jpg 231w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 628px) 100vw, 628px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m just disappointed we didn&#8217;t get to see Grandpa. Perhaps the tweed distracted from the urban-hip look?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Of course, all of that is possible in monogamous relationships, and I am not suggesting polyamory is in any way better, just different. But it works well for me personally.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Good for her.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A reader alerts me to this story: Meet the 44-year-old therapist who has a husband, a fianc\u00e9 and two boyfriends. Mary Crumpton, from Chorlton, is speaking publicly about her relationships in the hope of allowing others to understand people who &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/7136\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[87],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7136"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7136"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7136\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7138,"href":"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7136\/revisions\/7138"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7136"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7136"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7136"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}