{"id":1755,"date":"2013-08-24T01:58:12","date_gmt":"2013-08-24T00:58:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/?p=1755"},"modified":"2017-05-10T09:42:17","modified_gmt":"2017-05-10T07:42:17","slug":"a-follow-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/1755\/","title":{"rendered":"A Follow Up"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In attempt to address some of the reoccuring themes in the comments to my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.desertsun.co.uk\/blog\/?p=1734\">previous post<\/a>, I&#8217;ve decided to write a follow-up.<\/p>\n<p>Firstly, I did not write that post for the benefit of only Nigerians.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t write for a particular audience, I write primarily for myself.\u00a0 Insofar as I have a readership, I have an idea that it consists mainly of people who have known me in the past and a smattering of people who are interested in the oil and gas industry.\u00a0 Other than that I have no idea who reads this blog, or how many of them there are.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve been blogging for over 10 years, and I&#8217;ve never tried to slant a post in order to appease or anger a particular set of people.\u00a0 I just write what I think, based on what I&#8217;ve seen, and present it as my personal opinion, nothing more.<\/p>\n<p>With that in mind, let&#8217;s put to bed the idea that I am lecturing Nigerians on the state of affairs in their own country.\u00a0 I put the article on my blog, and a whole load of Nigerian websites republished it without my permission.\u00a0 This doesn&#8217;t bother me as they did credit me as the source (swiping my photo too on some occasions), but this article was not written with the intention of informing &#8211; or misleading &#8211; a Nigerian audience.\u00a0 Some commenters claim I am saying nothing new, and they&#8217;d be correct.\u00a0 I wouldn&#8217;t expect any expat to spend a mere 3 years in Lagos and be able to tell a Nigerian anything they didn&#8217;t already know about Nigeria.\u00a0 Like I said, I didn&#8217;t write it for Nigerians, I wrote it for myself and anyone else who happens to be reading.\u00a0 And for those who aren&#8217;t Nigerian, there was an awful lot of new stuff in there.<\/p>\n<p>I note that some people have complained that I have not offered any solutions, just a list of problems.\u00a0 There are two reasons for this.\u00a0 For a start, I have no idea whatsoever what the solutions would be.\u00a0 And also, it is hardly the place of an expat assigned for 3 years in Nigeria to start offering solutions to the country&#8217;s problems.\u00a0 That would be arrogance in the extreme.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, I do appreciate that I only spent time in a very small part of Lagos and barely saw anywhere else in the country.\u00a0 I cited security reasons to explain why this was the case, and a few commenters seem to think these were exaggerated.\u00a0 Now I&#8217;ll admit, I could have explored more of Lagos than I did.\u00a0 Our company security protocols were far more strict than those of other organisations, and objectively there were opportunities for me to have got out more.\u00a0 But let&#8217;s be honest here: there is no chance a foreigner can go off exploring Nigeria on his own.\u00a0 A foreigner driving himself about in mainland Lagos would be putting himself at serious risk of being car-jacked or robbed.\u00a0 This is no mere paranoia, the statistics support this.\u00a0 All the Nigerians I knew advised strongly against any expat going to the regional cities on a private trip.\u00a0 I was invited to a wedding in Owerri and briefly looked at the possibility of going, before quickly abandoning the idea.\u00a0 For a start, the guy getting married &#8211; who was from Owerri &#8211; was nervous about making the trip himself!\u00a0 Returning from Lagos to a regional town is a signal for the local criminals that a &#8220;rich&#8221; guy is coming.\u00a0 I know a guy from Warri who never goes back for much the same reasons.\u00a0 If Nigerians are abandoning their regional cities due to the levels of lawlessness, what chances does a foreign tourist have of showing up and enjoying a weekend away?\u00a0 Even foreigners travelling in groups would be a target for any number of dodgy officials, corrupt traffic police, area boys, and other criminals.\u00a0 During my time in Nigeria one of my compatriots, a telecoms engineer, was kidnapped and murdered in the north of Nigeria by Boko Haram or one of its offshoots.\u00a0 I&#8217;m sorry, but anyone who suggests I could have just taken off and explored Nigeria either doesn&#8217;t know the place very well or is being disingenuous.<\/p>\n<p>On that note, I am quite prepared to believe what I experienced in Lagos was not representative of the whole country.\u00a0 Contrary to what some people think, I am not a professor submitting a thesis to accurately describe every aspect of life in Nigeria.\u00a0 I&#8217;m just a bloke who lived there giving my opinion based on what I saw.\u00a0 However, I don&#8217;t believe that anything I&#8217;ve written is specific to Lagos and cannot be found across most if not all of Nigeria.\u00a0 If there is a city, region, or state where everything I have described does not exist, then please feel free to point this out in the comments.\u00a0 But I&#8217;m going to remain pretty skeptical of comments which claim my remarks are not representative but avoid citing any examples.<\/p>\n<p>Thirdly, I am a Brit and British English is my first language, and the language in which this blog is written.\u00a0 As I said, I don&#8217;t write for Nigerians, I write for myself.\u00a0 The term &#8220;lad&#8221; in British English is not derogatory, and nor was it used with such an intent in my post.\u00a0 The term &#8220;lads&#8221; in this context is a term of endearment used to convey friendship and warmth, and is a common term of reference in the UK.\u00a0 There are few terms of praise in the British oil and gas business greater than being described as part of &#8220;a good bunch of lads&#8221;.\u00a0 I suspect most people know this, but unfortunately one of the traits of a minority of Nigerians &#8211; and again, they are far from alone in this &#8211; is to seek offence at every opportunity, especially if this allows them to embark on a rant against &#8220;racist&#8221; British, colonial overlords, etc.\u00a0 It is pretty tiresome.\u00a0 The term &#8220;lads&#8221; is not racist nor derogatory, and those who think otherwise might want to consider that three of my lads were Scotsmen.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, I do appreciate the comments, especially the many positive ones.\u00a0 I am always glad when my articles reach out to somebody, and I value and greatly appreciate both your readership and the feedback.\u00a0 Many thanks to all of you who read and commented on my piece.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In attempt to address some of the reoccuring themes in the comments to my previous post, I&#8217;ve decided to write a follow-up. 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